Teri Fritts, Customer Service
teri@dogdecor.com
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Dogs who don't like being left alone
Is your dog chewing on
furniture, digging a hole in the carpet or barking non stop when you
have left him alone at home? This is your dogs way of dealing with
stress
and anxiety and it is your job to recognise that and do something about
it. You need to reassure your dog that being left is OK and that it in
fact
can be quite a positive experience.
Start from scratch
Do everything that you normally do when you are going out - put on your
jacket, get your keys and mobile, turn the heating down, put the lights
out in the kitchen... what ever your routines are - do that!
* Walk out of the door and close and lock it behind you. Wait for circa
a minute and then go back inside again, take of your jacket, put the
lights on again, turn the heating up... and do something relaxed - read
a book, watch TV, start dinner, do the dishes... - but don't greet the
dog when you enter the door, be very nonchalant and just get on with
what you are going to do (...dishes, read a book, etc.).
* Repeat this exercise as many times as you can muster every day, but
with at least half an hours break in between each exercise.
* After a couple of days you can start expanding the time you are out
of your home. First day 2 minutes, next day 3 minutes. This is to teach
the dog that you will come back soon and that there is no need to get
excited. That is also the reason that you should not greet the dog when
you enter the door - you are making just as much fuss about him or her
being
alone as he/she is! A calmly spoken Hello and a quiet stroke over his
back
is sufficient as a greeting.
You
can
help the dog cope with the loneliness in additional ways.
Treat treasure hunt
I always used to throw a handful of tiny treats (if your dog is keen on
his regular kibble, you can use that), over my living room floor and
sofa (yes, I allow my dogs everywhere in my home) and they could spend
a good minute or two searching for their sweets, before they even
noticed I was gone. There are many different ways to hide the treats or
the dogs favourite toy, so that when you leave, it will actually be a
positive
experience for the dog!
This
type of problem will be easier to solve with the help of an experienced
dog instructor, who will set up your training to your specific needs,
so I would like to advise you to get in touch with your local dog
instructor.
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Dealing with Separation Anxiety
Separation anxiety can be a
tough problem to deal with, for you and your dog. There are several
things that may trigger a response of separation anxiety in your dog,
including the following: when a dog who is accustomed to constant human
companionship is suddenly left alone for the first time; when a change
in the routine or family structure occurs; following a long period of
time
when the dog and his owner were constantly together; or following a
traumatic
event. Common behaviors occurring from separation anxiety include
chewing,
digging and scratching at windows or doors; urination and defecation
resulting
from stress; and barking, crying and howling. It's important to
remember
that your dog's separation anxiety behavior is part of a panic
response,
one that he can't help. For that reason, punishment simply will not
work.
Some short term solutions can involve leaving your pet with a friend or
relative or at a doggie day care facility or boarding kennel. Another
temporary measure can involve anti-anxiety medication, though be sure
to consult with your veterinarian first. If, however, you're interested
in more long-term solutions, you do have options.
Dealing with Separation Anxiety
One exercise that can help with separation anxiety and is fairly easy
to execute is to practice sit-stay and down-stay commands using
positive reinforcement. This gradually teaches your dog that he can
remain calmly in one place while you're elsewhere. You want to say the
command, then
move briefly out of your dog's sight, gradually increasing the distance
and time that you are away from your dog. On your return, use positive
reinforcement by gently praising him or giving him a treat. These
exercises
can easily be incorporated into your normal routine, for instance when
you get up to go into another room.
If you're dealing with a fairly minor case of separation anxiety,
there are several other things that you can do. First, try leaving your
dog with an article of your clothing that has your scent on it. Also,
keep all of your departures and arrivals low-key. In fact, experts
recommended
that you actually ignore your pet for the first few minutes when you
arrive
home, then calmly pet him. You can also establish a cue that you use
every
time you leave your dog on short absences. This can be a word or
action,
something like 'be right back' or the presentation of a chew toy, that
should be used during practice sessions. However, avoid using this cue
when you'll be gone for longer periods of time.
For more severe cases of separation anxiety, you can do all of the
above techniques combined with a process of desensitization meant to
get your dog used to being alone. This process should begin with your
normal departure activities, things that your dog recognizes like
getting the keys, putting on your shoes, or grabbing your coat. Do
these normal activities, but then sit back down. Repeat this exercise
until your dog does not respond to your actions with distress.
You then want to gradually increase what it is that you're doing.
The next step is to do your normal departure activities but then go to
the door, open it, then sit back down. After that, increase what you're
doing so that you actually step outside, leaving the door open, then
return
and sit back down. Finally, increase it so that you step outside, close
the door, then immediately return and sit back down. Slowly increase
the
amount of time that you're outside so that you get your dog accustomed
to being alone and being calm.
The key here is to proceed very gradually from step to step. You should
not go forward a step until you dog shows no signs of distress with
what you are doing. If your actions do produce anxiety, you've likely
gone too fast and need to return to the earlier step. How long it will
take you
or how many times you need to repeat each step will vary.
You can start practicing short absences once your dog has learned
to tolerate your being outside for several seconds. Start with a minute
away and practice as many absences under ten minutes as possible. You
can practice several of these in one session, and also practice some
short-duration absences scattered throughout the day. Every time that
you return, keep your return low-key. Your goal should be to get your
dog to handle short absences between thirty and ninety minutes in
length. Once that has been accomplished, you can start to try some
longer absences.
There are some things that simply won't help with separation anxiety.
Punishment should never be used and crating is not recommended. Getting
another pet as a companion usually doesn't work either. What can work,
however, is lots of patience and understanding.
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